Ellie Reed’s latest single, If I Never Met Him, is an explosive blend of high-energy rock that packs both an emotional punch and a sense of catharsis. Written at just 19, this track comes months after her successes with You Weren’t Mine, Damage Control, and I Can’t Be Your Friend (Feat. Bumblefoot), continuing to solidify her reputation as a dynamic voice in the rock scene.
Recorded in July 2024 at Orb Recording Studios in Austin, Texas, If I Never Met Him captures a raw, unfiltered reflection on the aftermath of a toxic relationship. “Heaven is if I never met him,” Reed declares in the chorus, highlighting the bittersweet “what-if” scenario that many can relate to—a world where life might have turned out better without the pain of a particular person. The song captures the complexity of healing after heartbreak, where, as Reed puts it, “Everything happens for a reason but also screw you.”
Drawing from personal experience, Ellie wrote the song after beginning the healing process from a brutal summer, with the track representing the stage where emotional wounds start to feel lighter, yet there’s still a sharp edge of resentment. It serves as a sequel of sorts to I Can’t Be Your Friend, which focused on the heartbreak itself, while If I Never Met Him illustrates the personal growth and emotional release that follows.
Musically, the track takes inspiration from some of Reed’s favorite rock icons, including Paramore, Lita Ford, Guns N’ Roses, Cinderella, Motley Crue, and Poison. The result is a hard-hitting rock anthem with infectious energy, a driving rhythm, and gritty guitars that bring the song’s emotional intensity to life. It’s a cathartic experience for Reed, who says that recording the song allowed her to showcase her personality—expressing her obsessive side but also her ability to release the grip on past pain.
Ellie Reed’s passion is evident, and she hopes this song resonates with anyone who has experienced the tumult of heartbreak and the rage that often accompanies it. “Everyone can relate to the rage,” she says, and with this single, she invites listeners to channel their own experiences and frustrations.
As she prepares to embark on the next phase of her career If I Never Met Him marks a pivotal moment in Reed’s journey. It’s a song that showcases her growth as both an artist and a person, and it’s clear that she’s just getting started. Fans can expect more from this rising star as she continues to evolve and carve out her place in the rock world.
